Thursday 30 May 2013

Joyful Lovable Life...

What greater wealth is there than to own your life and to spend it on growing? Every living thing must grow. It can't stand still. It must grow or perish. Joy is the goal of existence, and joy is not to be stumbled upon, but to be achieved, and the act of treason is to let its vision drown in the swamp of the moment's torture. Money is only a tool. It will take you wherever you wish, but it will not replace you as the driver.It is not death that we wish to avoid, but life that we wish to live.In this world, either you're virtuous or you enjoy yourself. Not both, darling, not both.

You can't live your life for other people. You've got to do what's right for you, even if it hurts some people you love.I don't know that love ever changes. People change. Circumstances change.True love is rare, and it's the only thing that gives life real meaning. It was the greatest sensation of existence: not to trust but to know. It's not that I don't suffer, it's that I know the unimportance of suffering. I know that pain is to be fought and thrown aside, not to be accepted as part of one's soul and as a permanent scar across one's view of existence.You always have a choice. It's just that some people make the wrong one. So don't let your life go in vain, make the right choice, and enjoy living it.

The emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it.Its just how we handle it. Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys. It not only strengthens the bonds but also makes life worth living. Romance is thinking about your significant other, when you are supposed to be thinking about something else. But today we have programmed ourselves in such a way that we are thinking about others even when we are supposed to be thinking about our special one. Everyone is always going through tough things, the irony in it is that everyone thinks what they're going through is just as hard as what you are. Life isn't about surviving this, it's about understanding this.People want pretty much the same things: They wanted to be happy. Most young people seemed to think that those things lay somewhere in the future, while most older people believed they lay in the past. But we have made it a habit of running away from present where actually the roots to happiness grow...

One should Love, because one wants to love. Is there any reason needed to love..... Ofcourse not!!!!
So Love Life, Live Life!!!



P.S.: Thoughts inspired from my favr8 author Ayn Rand

Monday 27 May 2013

Turning 25!!!!!

Its my birthday today and I am super excited. Not because its my day but because I am turning 25....

I have completed the silver jubilee of my life. Currently relishing on the super-delicious doodle cakes gifted by google. I just loved them. They are so yummy... Humming to the song dedicated by my darling hubby "MERA MANN KEHNE LAGA..." from the movie nautanki saala. Cant express the moment he played it for me on his guitar. The best birthday gift I ever recieved. And not to forget the msg beep which kept on ringing continuously till 1. I had to finally put it on silent mode. And the trick I played to not receive any calls, put them on voice msg.... Sorry all.... But your wishes made my day night ;-) and yeah making my day too. Love you all....

Now that the 25 years I have overlived my life, its time to payback....
Some resolutions which I strictly follow if I happen to make them anytime. This time its about becoming a better person. Doing my bit for the society, family and self...

Turning 25 is not a “milestone” birthday. But it does signify an important milestone: becoming a quarter of a century. It does sound supercool....


For my birthday I want world peace, to end hunger and pain, to end global warming, to end racism, for people not to judge others by the outside, for all ages, colors, races, and other differences to never matter, for everyone to have same opportunities for all,to live in a world where money has no value, where equality and understanding is an everyday experience.




Wait, I am not so out of this world. I just want to say, I would better work on all these factors so that I can gift it to my grand kids and great grand kids with blessings flowing down from heaven or maybe hell... 





 For my birthday I don't want the impossible but I just want to make it possible.




On our birthday, we don't care what the world thinks of us; only later we discover that it wasn't thinking of us at all.




Falling in love with my life was easy. Staying in love with it easier. Happy birthday to me. I can't wait until next year. Birthdays are like boogers. The more you have, the harder it is to breathe.




It is another year closer to gray hair, reading glasses and suits instead of adventure sports and wild wishes. It is just the start of a three hundred sixty-five days journey the earth around the sun. I am gonna hell lot enjoy the next tour!




The more I praise and celebrate my life, the more there is in life to celebrate.


I just love my life a lot..... and Love you all too..!!!!

Thursday 23 May 2013

Is this LOVE...???!!!!

Yes what she was heard was right, he said "I don't want YOU at this moment". In the middle of the party, where everyone was having a blast she just controlled herself from getting blasted. They both were having merry time too, then from where did this come ???

It was a new year party on the beach side. She had been working her *** out for the whole week just to take the 2 days off, so that she could travel with her hubby for the new year eve. It was a celebration with his colleagues, but she enjoyed it all when he is around. Moreover his friends were overwhelmed by her knowledge of seafood and the sea. They all had developed a liking for her because of her joyous and lovely nature.Two of his colleagues had even complemented him to be lucky for having such a wonderful wife... He had reacted by planting a kiss on her cheek.....

In the middle of nowhere, when everything just seemed perfect suddenly he said he is missing his buddies. But she read it in his eyes who was the special one being missed at the moment. She suggested him to give them a call and he did the same. But most of them were busy with their wives partying. Learning the situation she tried to soothe him by saying "Don't worry, Mai to hu. I am always there for you...:-)" and hugged him. The reaction which bounced back took atleast 5 seconds to soak in cos she could not believe her ears. They were going on well. Enjoying more than anybody else in the party. She thought he is enjoying her company.

But it was all fake, maybe he was just acting of being happy. But the truth laid somewhere else. She always had known the truth.She was completely aware of his love for that somebody special even after a heartburning breakup. Actually it was that love which made her fall for him.... So, knowing everything and being used to many such small incidences she wasnt shocked on the reaction, but she just didnt expect it at that moment. He had asked her to go away, but she had promised him to be there for him every moment, but she never denied any of his wish.

After soaking in the words he said, she just replied a cool "OK!!!!:-)" and moved out. She went into the room they had stayed over, collected the keys of the car and drove away....

After almost 2 hrs she was there, standing in front of him again with a cute smile and her lips ready to throw words to die for.... He was standing in front of her with a huge questionmark on his face. Before he could say or ask her anything she popped up in her bubbly voice "You didn't tell me for how long you don't want me. I thought this much time would be enough for you." And she hugged him tightly with that witty smile still dancing on her lips. Before he could even react to the whole thing, he found himself dissolving in her arms.....

Monday 20 May 2013

What really matters is...

Today I am gonna share a lovely story with you, it is one of my favouraites.. 

An old man lived alone in Minnesota . He wanted to spade his potato garden, but it was quiet a hard work for a man of his age and energy.

His only son, who would have helped him, was in prison. The old man decided to write a letter to his son and tell him the situation:


Dear Son,

I am feeling pretty bad because it looks like I won't be able to plant my potato garden this year. I hate to misdo the garden, because your mother always loved planting time. I have carried it on after her every year by year. But now I'm just getting too old to be digging up a garden plot. If you were here; all my troubles would be over.
I know you would dig the plot, for me if you weren't in the prison.

Love,
Dad
Shortly, the old man received this telegram:

"For Heaven's sake, Dad, don't dig up the garden!! That's where I buried the GUNS!!"


At 4 am the next morning, a force of FBI agents and local police officers showed up and dug up the entire garden without finding any guns.
Confused and troubled, the old man wrote another letter to his son explaining him what happened and also asked him what was it all.

His son's reply was:


"Go ahead and plant your potatoes, Dad it's the best I could do for you from here."
Perfect son, isn't he....
The reason why I am sharing this story with you is the very simple message it conveys which we very easily tend to forget..

""NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN THE WORLD, IF YOU HAVE DECIDED TO DO SOMETHING DEEP FROM YOUR HEART, YOU CAN DO IT,.. IT IS THE THOUGHT THAT MATTERS NOT WHERE YOU ARE.""

Thursday 16 May 2013

The "BE" Attitude


Be loving to your  enemies..

Be honest to your friends.

Be caring to your family.

Be kind to any stranger..
 
Be stout enough to face the world each day.

Be frail enough to know
 you cannot do everything alone.

Be responsible enough to make 
a start for whats correct..

Be generous to those who need your help.

Be thrifty with whatever you need .

Be fair enough to share it with the needy..

Be wise enough to know that
 you do not know everything.

Be foolish enough to believe in miracles..

Be loose enough to laugh on the silliest of joke.

Be willing to share your joys.

Be voluntary to share the sorrows of others.

Be a leader when you see a
 path others have missed.

Be a follower when you are covered
  by the clouds of uncertainty.

Be first to celebrate the victory of an opponent who succeeds.

Be last to criticize a colleague who fails.

Be sensible where your next step will fall,
 so that you will not tumble.

Be sure of your final destination,
 in case you are going the wrong way.

Be altruistic to join others 
with you to the top..

Be affectionate to those who love you.

Be fond to those who do not
 love you; they may change.

Above all, be yourself.

Just "Be Yourself"

Monday 13 May 2013

Lets Make A Day, Lets Make A Life

Like every other day I got up in the morning planted a gm kiss ;-) on my darling hubby's cheek and and took my cell to write the to-do list. While writing I was startled by the msg beep on my phone, which is so rare, so early in the morning... After completing the list I opened the message and it read
"Each morning, nature hands you over 24 hrs free of charge, If U had all the money in the world, U could yet not buy even 1 extra second... Live Life... Love Life...."

I read the message and went off to the bathroom, but the message started dancing in my head....
Isn't it true and it is not that I never knew it was, but still the thought made himself comfortable in my head forcing me to think over it.

What am I What are we doing??? Working all the day sometimes like dogs and sometimes like donkeys and for whom??? Yes, we have the answer for this, For US, Our FAMILIES.... But after doing all this do we have any time left out for whom we do it all. Remember the last time you have had some time for yourself or for family. I know its really long back.....

We have to take a pause here and calculate the balance sheet of life. What have we invested and how much have we earned???? Who is crossing over, the profit or the loss????
Step back a little take out some time to pamper yourself first and then the family....

Too many people undervalue what they are and overvalue what they are not. Our whole life we run the race of trying to become like somebody, but how much do we try to be like our own, be like Us...
We just need to understand that the happiest people dont have the best of everything , but they make the best of everything they have.... Its good trying to be the best, but worse to not understand that you are the best. As the zen philosophy explains "Everybody has his own way. As for the right way, correct way, the only way, It does not exist" Make your own path .... Live your life the way you want to and not the way others have lived or want you to live. Stop the glorification of BUSY and relax....

Take some time to walk in the rain and smile... Stop judging every single thing that comes your way.
Just try to love it, live it....

Laugh a little and feel your nerves relax. Every survival kit must include a sense of humour...
If we do not feel grateful and happy about what we have what makes us think we would be happy with more???? As some noble man has said " when you are living the best version of yourselves, you inspire others to live the best version of themselves. "

The real secret to  a fabulously wonderful awesomestest life is to live imperfectly with great delight..
So all my fellow people out there Live Life Love Life
And believe me stay true to yourself you will end up incredibly happy....
So be awesome today, Keep Loving Keep Enjoying!!!!!